Mothers have an enormous impact on our world. In this Mother’s Day episode, Jason reflects on the cultural messages and sayings that help shape who we become.
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Jason introduces Season 10 episode 19 of the podcast, Cultural Lessons Learned from Mothers. Welcome back to the podcast on corporate culture and leadership and thank you for listening. We engage thought leaders like CEOs, CFOs, managers, VPs, directors, and more for this podcast. We wish to create content that engages your mind and heart and allows you to step back and think and add some positivity to your life. We deep dive into today’s topic.
We can’t control everything but what we can control is our response. Still a lot of work to do but wanted to remind the audience what is within our control is the temperature we create in the organizations and teams we work with.
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In a high-pressure business world often obsessed with data and metrics, the most foundational elements of a thriving corporate culture are frequently the ones we learned long before entering the boardroom. In this heartfelt episode of The Thermostat Podcast, host Jason V. Barger explores the profound intersection between maternal nurturing and professional excellence.
By looking at the traits fostered by mothers—such as empathy, conscientiousness, and resilience—we can find a blueprint for leadership in teams that resonates far beyond the walls of our homes.
Summary: The Maternal Blueprint for Leadership
Research indicates that great mothering fosters critical human traits: conscientiousness, empathy, emotional sensitivity, and agreeableness. In a professional context, these translate directly into the “power skills” of the modern workplace: resilience, social skills, stress regulation, and high emotional intelligence (EQ).
Jason shares the cultural “mantras” his mother used to anchor her family, demonstrating how these simple phrases serve as powerful tools for anyone aiming to set a better “temperature” in their organization. From pausing judgment to pursuing goals with tenacity, these lessons remind us that the best leaders are those who nurture the human spirit while maintaining high standards for excellence.
Five Cultural Lessons for Every Leader
1. Empathy: “Everyone has something heavy they are carrying.” This lesson teaches leaders to hit the pause button on judgment. In any corporate culture, recognizing that colleagues and clients have stories occurring behind the scenes allows for deeper connection and higher trust.
2. Excellence: “If you aren’t willing to take the time to get it right the first time, what makes you think you’ll take the time to come back to redo it?” This is a call for mental toughness and discipline. It encourages teams to bring pride to their work on the front end, ensuring that “busyness” doesn’t replace true effectiveness.
3. Tenacity: “Go to the basket.” In the context of leadership in teams, this is a reminder not to settle. It’s about having the courage to take direct action and pursue a vision with passion rather than “tiptoeing” around challenges.
4. Resilience: “All is well.” Even in the midst of organizational change or personal loss, the best leaders provide a steadying presence. This mantra encourages a perspective that recognizes the good happening in the world, even during dark moments.
5. Authenticity: “You do you.” A lesson shared by Jason’s wife, this focuses on self-awareness. To be an effective member of a team, one must understand their unique strengths and show up authentically rather than emulating others.
Notable Quotes
“The best leaders and team cultures in the world are the ones that make time to step back, breathe in good oxygen, and calibrate their thermostat.”
“Maternal traits lead to greater human resilience, social skills, stress regulation, and greater levels of emotional intelligence.”
“If we can’t articulate what we want for the future in action and behavior, we can’t be surprised when it doesn’t exist.”
“Go to the basket… don’t settle. If there’s something you want, go for it. Be courageous enough to go.”
“Anything that is human is mentionable, and anything that is mentionable can be more manageable.” (Referencing the maternal wisdom also echoed by Mr. Rogers)
Questions to Ponder
As you reflect on your own history and the “temperature” you are setting for your team, consider these questions from the close of the episode:
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What are the cultural messages and lessons that you remember most from your mother?
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As a leader on your team, what specific cultural messages or sayings do you want your people to hear and internalize from you?
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What kind of culture are you intentionally trying to create with the people around you right now?
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How can you better align your words and your actions to set the temperature you hope to see in your organization?
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Links and References
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For more insights and practical tips, be sure to check out Jason V Barger’s book Breathing Oxygen. This book dives deeper into the concepts discussed in this episode and provides additional strategies for fostering a positive mindset and effective leadership.
By incorporating these practices into your summer routine, you can breathe new life into your personal and professional endeavors. Remember, as Jason says, “The best leaders, teams, and cultures on the planet stimulate progress by recalibrating their thermostat together.”
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A thermostat is proactive. It sets the temperature in a room. Controls the temperature. Regulates the temperature. But in today’s distracted, fast-paced and digital world, it’s easy for individuals and organizations to act more like thermometers, slipping into reactionary thinking, becoming scattered and inconsistent. The most compelling leaders, teams, organizations, families, or collection of humans of any kind operate in thermostat mode. They calibrate their mind and heart to set the temperature for the vision and culture they want to create. Jason Barger, globally celebrated author, keynote speaker, and founder of Step Back Leadership Consulting, is the host of The Thermostat, a podcast journey to discover authentic leadership, create compelling cultures and find clarity of mission, vision, and values.